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Christmas is on the way...

2008-11-27T20:07:00.003+11:00

And so i have been delegated to put up some wish lists too (i know how u feel Juan *sigh*)
So, these wishlists are mainly for our Secret Santa's but i'm sure that no one will knock back a gift from someone out of the family :p
FYI, just in case u don't already know, Carol (much to her dismay) & Lalo currently have no internet hence (did i use it right Juan??) i am putting their wishlists up for them :D

Lalo's Wishlist
*Putting the pieces together (6 dvd boxset feat Dr John Batten & Dr Tas Walker)
you can purchase this from www.creationontheweb.com
*JB HiFi voucher
*Rebel Sport Voucher
and i have also been told to inform you that...
*Socks and undies are always welcome... God knows he needs them LOL
j/k

Carol's Wishlist
*Spotlight Voucher
*room seventyseven voucher
you can purchase this by calling (07) 4743 7303, they will be more than happy to send it to u in time for Xmas.
*Lincraft voucher
*Frosted Latte Powder
This can be bought online at www.cappuccine.com.au

Gerry's Wishlist
*Time Crisis 4 for PS3 with Guncon 3
(PS3 game with a gun)
*Gran Turismo 5 for PS3
*The Orange Box for PS3
*Short Sleeve Collared shirts (XL please, not M and not XXL)

and last but DEFINITELY not least...

My WishList... u ready?
*80+ cm LCD or Plasma tv so i can finally play my games! (Do u have me for S.S Daddy???)
*FM transmitter for my iPod
*Singstar for PS3 (and a willingness to play of course!)
*Voucher for Sunglass Hut (my sunnies had an unfortunate encounter with my butt... LOL)

PLEASE NOTE WELL...
These are only suggestions and as Juan said
"Even though we have these lists to help us out, the real fun comes from finding out more about our loved ones, and using that knowledge to give gifts of love. So go forth and become super-sleuths, find out about each other and use that information for good!"
Its always nice to receive a gift that has had thought put into it and that wasn't on your wishlist :p

So that's it from me for a while... probably until after Christmas so

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR
*MWAH*

Peace out....

Latest News.....

2008-11-01T21:00:00.010+11:00

Ok, Ok.... So i know i haven't updated in ages, but honestly, up until last week, nothing much had really happened.
So here's what happened last week... Most of you would know that at Ruthie's last check-up in Sydney, the doctor told us that she would need surgery.
So on Wednesday the 22nd October we headed up to Sydney... Gerry, Ruthie, Kairi, Ivy (My M.I.L) and I.
Thankfully, Gerry's Uncle Edgar and Aunty Ki live in the Blue Mountains and had offered us a place to stay. An offer we couldn't refuse and appreciate more than we can say!!! It was WAY better than a 5 star hotel! We had everything we needed and more and Ki fussed over us like a mother hen over her chicks! :p Thanx Ki!!!!
Anyways, that morning, Ivy had heard that it had been snowing in the Blue Mountains so Ruthie insisted she take her beanie and her sunnies for the drive

What a regular little snow bunny!!! LOL

Okay, so we arrived and unpacked and got settled, etc then just hung out for a bit on the verandah taking in the beautiful views of the Blue Mountains.

So on Thursday morning we had a 5.30am start. Ruthie was the first appointment of the day (which was 9am, mind you), so we had to be up and out of the house by 7 in order to get there in time.
Ruthie had to fast from 7am so she was up at about 6.30 to have brekky and get ready.
So we left the house just after 7 and arrived at the hospital at about 8.30 (Praise God!!!)
Not sure how many of u have ever been to Westmead Children's Hospital but it is HUGE!!!! Definitely not what we're used to in Lil Ol' Canberra!!! And its not dreary or smelly like the hospitals here either lol
So we make our way up to the eye clinic and notice that in every area's waiting room, there's a toyroom just as big as the waiting room (if not bigger!) full of toys for all aged kids and a massive plasma tv with cartoons on all the time! Ruthie didn't know what to do with herself!
So we saw the doctor and he said the surgery would go ahead and to be at the Day Surgery unit at 12.30. It was only just after 9 at this stage so we had to find a way of entertaining ourselves and especially Ruthie... This hospital is so child oriented that it didn't take much for Ruthie to keep her mind off her hunger!
So, we wander around the hospital looking for something to do thinking "its a kids hospital! there has to be some entertaiment!" so we wander around the inside coz it was still quite cold outside and find the library, only to find it was closed till 10, so we wander and wander and sit and think and Ruthie's all "I'm hungry!"
So we decide to go outside and see this...

A massive Pirate ship!!! Big enough that me and Gerry could have a run around on it too :p

Then Ruthie and Gerry were making music on the tyre instrument thing... it had a name but i don't remember what it was :-s

And Ruthie made some new Friends... us too of course

Gerry found a cosy nook...

And Ruthie joined him soon enough...

Soon after we got cold and a bit bored and it was 10am so we went in to check out the library...
We must have read at least 15 books in there!

Eventually we got bored with that too and went to sit down and have a couple of games of Snap (courtesy Aunty Ki)

By the time we got bored with that it was time to go to Day Surgery...
Again, there was a big toy room but this one had a GameCube in there which Ruthie attempted to play but got frustrated with :p

So... we changed her into her pjs and the nurse came and took some obs, etc
Then the anaesthetist, doc and everyone else came in to tell us the procedure and to meet Ruthie and tell us the risks etc... The kinds of stuff u don't process very well when ur Baby Girl is about to go for delicate surgery... lol
After al that was over with they dressed me in the funny robe, hat and shoes that you have to wear when u go "behind the scenes" and off we went... Boba too of course.
Ruthie took the gas mask pretty well... mostly coz they promised her that she would eventually get to the pink Jelly Beans if she kept taking deep breaths lol
Then she was out and i was taken back to Gerry while they did their thing.
She was in there for about 2hrs. At one point, Gerry said to me "Isn't it amazing how time flew while she was in there?" I looked at him as if he was an animal i had never seen before!
It was the 2 longest hours of my life!!!

Then my Baby came out and was crying and writhing around in the cot... Needless to say it was probably one of the hardest things i've ever done is watch her like that... We tried to comfort her but she didn't want it... She kept screaming "MY EYES!!! MY EYES!! I CAN'T SEE!!!" Meanwhile, the tears she was crying were mixed with blood so it was quite a shock.
The doctors told us that the stitches in her eye felt like having sand in your eye... Not the best feeling...

They gave her some painkillers after a bit and she settled down... Gerry was uncomfortable taking pics coz of the flash so he kept taking them of his feet
He didn't want everyone to think he was a terrible father because he was taking pics of his little princess when she was in pain...lol
But in his defence, it was also done for someone who requested "lots of photos..." :p

So Ruthie woke up after a while, hungry and thirsty (Remember she hadn't eaten since 7 and it was now 5.30pm)
So she had some water and when asked whether she would like a jelly or an iceblock, she replied "Both!"

She had a jelly and a glass of water but not the ice block coz we didn't want her to be sick... apparently you can
get quite nauseous coming out of the anaesthetic.
At one point she asked to go to the toilet and i simply forgot that she couldn't see and she was quite wobbly... there were a couple of close calls :p

The next couple of days were full of everyone in the house leading her around and spoiling her rotten!
It was fun to see the expression on her face when she was trying food and feeling things. Actually, the day after the surgery she still hadn't opened her eyes and i managed to catch a tiny little skink... she didn't want to open her eyes to look at it for fear of the pain but she put her finger out to pat it and unbeknownst to her... It BIT her!!! She didn't realize because she didn't see it lunge(is that the right word?) and because it was so tiny.
Aunty Ki also went out and got some things with different textures so that Ruthie coulds still enjoy stories... I think Storytime with Aunty Ki was her favourite thing in sydney!
The next couple of days, Ruthie walked around all day and night wearing sunnies coz it was too bright... even if she had her eyes closed!
But they also gave her the (false) confidence to open them when she thought no one could see :p
Not long after, she was back to normal.
This is a pic of her on the way back from Sydney with a red eye...

And this is a pic taken today :D
I don't think i could be any prouder of my Boo... She even laughs when i put her eyedrops in... LOL

Now, please don't think we forgot our other baby...
Gerry and i have been wanting to buy a walker for Kairi for ages but never had time or never found what we were after but guess who finally got her new toy????
She loves it and is slowly learning to chase after her Big Sister or to come towards you to play...

And of course, Ruthie loves playing with her now that she's more mobile too :p

On a totally different note Ki has some lovely plants growing in her garden one of which was with us on the way home

(i did know its name, but have forgotten it right when i need it!!!)
I didn't really notice it until we were well out of sydney. i was looking at it and was in total amazement at God's creativity and Creation... There's not that much detail in this pic, but when u get a chance to have a look at one close up, do it! They are absolutely beautiful!

Anyways... sorry this post is so long but there were ppl that wanted to know all the details and it was easier to put it all on here than to put it on individual emails :p

Have a Great Day and God Bless...
Peace Out!!!!

As I Promised...

2008-06-16T20:01:00.002+10:00

Here is the video of Kairi....

And a little something we made Grandma for her Birthday

Absence makes the Heart grow Fonder...

2008-06-12T22:49:00.004+10:00

So, here i am back again after what??? 2-3 months :-p

But i think i said in my first post not to expect much!

My last post was done the night i went into labour and so i'm sure everyone (or the 2 people) that read this know i had the baby. A little girl called Kairi Esther.

So i'll put some pics up and try to post a video of her too.

So this is one of the first pics of my precious little bundle. Had to go to Special Care Nursery coz she was only 2.64Kgs.

And here she is out of the humidicrib with the feeding ube up her nose.

Here she is with her future husband (much to Gerry's dismay :-p)

Harrison Benjamin (?) who was born 2 days before Kairi.

One of the first of many beautiful smiles.

And one with big sister whom she adores and can't get enough of.

Now down to business... Carol tagged me so here goes...

5 things found in my bag:
1. Baby wipes
2. Nappies
3. My wallet
4. Lucas Papaw ointment
5. Lollies

5 favourite things in my craft room... i don't have a craft room, so i'll just use my house in general :-p
1. My photos... especially the ones that aren't up yet :-(
2. My OTP sister letters that Carol made me
3. My Donna Hay Simple Essentials cookbook
4. My computer
5. My new WiiFit game

5 things I have always wanted to do:
1. Adopt a little African baby boy
2. Go to Africa on a missions trip in an orphanage
3. Go to Disneyworld
4. Go and see family in Chile
5. Be rich enough that i can donate money without thinking twice

5 things I am currently into:
1. My WiiFit
2. My Girls
3. Shopping
4. Baking!!
5. My Friends

5 people I am tagging:
I don't know anyone who blogs so unfortunately i can't do this one... Sorry Carol!

Hope this was entertaining! for u!!

Peace Out!!!

2008-03-03T21:58:00.002+11:00

So... not much has happened of late.
I finished work last week, (much to my manager's dismay) to get some well earned rest before baby comes, although, i think i have been working harder at home than i did at work :-p
On the weekend, my MIL and SIL, Kathy, came over to help me get the house ready for the pending arrival of Blob.
We totally fixed Ruthie's room and her books are now in a bookshelf instead of a tallboy drawer.
Most of the credit for that should go to Kathy as she pretty much put together the shelves on her own.
THANKS KATHY!!!
My MIL helped me out with stuff in the kitchen as well as my bedroom.
She started vacuuming but halfway through, the vacuum died! I'm hoping it was something faulty with the vacuum and not the fact that my bedroom was too dirty!!!
Ruthie stayed the night at Grandma's on Saturday so that Gerry and i could finish what needed to be done around the house.
We planned to be at the mall at 10am on sunday to return the vacuum, but without our little automatic alarm clock (Ruthie) we kinda slept in.
Nevertheless, we got EVERTHING done!
YAY!!!Blob's room is ready, the bassinette is in place and most of the housework is done.

So here's what i look like of late. Lalo has asked for a pic, so here it is... Alf was supposed to be a comparison type person but he decided to use his head instead!

On another note, i should say Congratulations to Jimena and Ben on the arrival of their long awaited little BOY(!!!), Harrison Benjamin Medway. YAY!!!
He is so cute and totally looks like a little boy.
In case you weren't aware, Jimena and i have been pregnancy buddies throughout the last 8-9 months, comparing stories and sharing advice and dreams for our little babies.
I feel quite honoured that i was one of the first to find out little Harry was born.

I will start signing off now as it is nearly 10.30pm and i have a busy day tomorrow and really need my rest.

For those of you who DO know the date of my C-Section, please pray that all goes well and that i have peace about everything i have been worried about.

We took some photos last night of what may well be the last pics of us as a family of 3

Peace Out!!!

Just an Update

2008-01-17T15:49:00.000+11:00

So, alot has happened since i was on here last.

Ruthie and i went to Mt Isa to visit Carol and Fam...

As you can see, it was a long drive from Townsville to Mt Isa.

The cousins spent alot of time together which more often than not, ended up in Carol or I going to break up a fight :-p

They probably behaved more like teenage siblings than cousins who rarely see eachother.

Ruthie was, for the first time in her life, allowed to go outside in her gumboots and splash in the puddles.

She was also introduced to the wildlife of Mt Isa right in Carol's backyard.

I had all (well, most of) myhair chopped off for more of a "Mum's" style, much to Lalo's dismay :-p

I really should be packing...

2007-11-08T20:53:00.000+11:00

...but i couldn't be bothered.
Its a bad habit of mine to leave things until the last minute... hehe
So here's the plan: Tomorrow i will be washing and ironing and packing like crazy and probably do a bit of cleaning as well. Then we have to drop Ruthie off at Grandma's house for a sleepover, then do the shopping for the fortnight for the 3 "adults" staying here :-p then probably come home and do a bit more packing. I'm a bit worried as to how i'll go with that seeing as half the stuff already in my suitcase is for Jesse, and i haven't even packed all of the stuff going to him either!!!
What a Spoily Spoil!!!!

Saturday i have to be up early to do a shift at work!!! Yay!!! I really am looking forward to it, but am also a bit worried as last week i got abused by cranky customers who made a mistake with their home loan and tried to blame it on me... Hello!!! i haven't been there for the last 3 months!!! Anyways, i had to put my cranky pants on and they left in a huff :-p
After that i guess i'll pick Ruthie up and put her to bed while i pack the last minute things like toothbrushes, etc.
Then hopefully Gerry will get home around 3pm, have a shower and we can leave canberra by 4pm to be in sydney hopefully by 7.30ish. Our plane leaves at 6.40am on Sunday morning, so i daresay that by the time we get to Townsville Ruthie and i will be walking around like zombies.

Here are a few photos that have been taken since i last blogged... all of Ruthie of course :-p

Ruthie having lunch with Mim and Nat.
They're such clowns :-p

Here is my beautiful girl
just being beautiful :-)

Playing with Alfie

So that's it for now... My next blog should be more interesting seeing as we'll probably be doing more :-p but until then...
Mt Isa... Here we Come!!!!!!!
Peace out!!!

Introducing....

2007-10-23T17:50:00.000+10:00

Sorry guys... Its still Blob :-p
So this morning, we get up at 7am... (7AM!!!!!) to get ready for our ultrasound.
Ruthie was grumpy all morning and i had to concentrate on drinking at least 600mLs (a Mt Franklin Water bottle) of water and not peeing!!!
So off we went. Our Technician, Sylvia, went about checking everything for the doctor's report while Gerry sat in the corner trying to keep Ruthie entertained.
Blob was being stubborn so that it took ages to get a picture of an artery coming from its heart and one of its nose and lips. Meanwhile, my bladder was about to explode!!
So, because Blob wouldn't move, she asked me to empty my bladder... aaaahhh...
So anyways, we asked her to tell us the gender and try as she might, Blob would not uncross its legs!!! Stubborn... Definitely my child!
Now, a couple of people have asked me if we knew the gender and we just don't want to tell anyone. I promise u this is not the case...
So anyways, here are the pics... if u look closely, u can see Blob sucking its thumb in the profile pic...

On Friday, Gerry had an RDO, so instead of doing the the stuff we should have done (like clean the house, etc), we went to the lake for a bbq.

Nothing exciting really... It was really just that boredom had hit me and i needed to get out for a bit :-p

And finally, i caught someone else trying to be pretty...

At least i know what i can get them for Xmas or their birthdays... HAHAHA

Anyways, till next time...

Peace Out!!!

2007-10-16T13:44:00.000+10:00

Again, not much has been happening lately... Except that this blog is making me take more photos!
I'm getting a bit worried that i'm turning into Carol! NOOOOOOOOOO!!!!
LOL just kidding!
On Saturday, Axelito came over to hang out for a bit and was arguing with Ruthie over her headband.
I caught him unawares.....

I guess he just wanted to feel pretty for once... hehe

Sunday is usually cleaning day in the Abideen/Ojeda Household.
On Saturday, we had promised Ruthie that on Sunday, we would put her Dora the Explorer canopy thingy up after we cleaned her room.
She got it for her birthday in March, but only went into a bed in August, but then we had the Gonzo's come to stay so we couldn't put it up then etiher.
So after a shuffle around of her toys and vacuuming the room, up it went.
Needless to say she was so happy it was finally up! Now she actually looks forward to going to bed!

This morning i woke up at about 3.45am and i couldn't sleep. I was tossing and turning and all i could think about was............................... Get this............................................................................. COCO POPS!!!!!

I don't know why but i couldn't get it out of my head!!!

So up i get at 4.05am to eat a bowl of coco pops! I had a small Ruthie-sized bowl and i think i should have had a normal sized bowl because it still took me a while to get to sleep.

I emailed Gerry this morning to let him know of my interesting early morning snack and he called me straight away.

He could honestly not believe that i got up to eat a bowl of Coco Pops!

I personally don't see what's so strange about that, being that my night time sleep is the longest time i go without food.

On Sunday at Dad's house, we had barbecue and Axel and Sonia were telling me to stop eating and that i eat too much, but really, would you rather see me eat non-stop, or would you rather see me spew non-stop???

I prefer to eat!

On another note, Gerry mentioned to me that he might like to add a few blog entries every now and then, so don't be surprised if you see some stories about a used car yard!

Till next time..... Peace Out!!!

Pottering Along...

2007-10-11T16:32:00.000+10:00

So, not much has happened of late...

Ruthie and i have just been pottering about the house not really doing anything in particular.

It has gotten to the point where i am getting very restless, which probably means i'm getting over my Hyperemesis!!!

I've been into work a couple of times, and would love to go back until we go for our trip to Mt Isa, but alas, who would look after Ruthie and besides, i can't exactly say

"i can come back for a month, but then i need a month off in november"

I am getting worried that soon i will be counting down the days till we go, and October is going sooooo slowly.

This time has reminded me of why i was itching to get back to work after having Ruthie.

All my friends work so there is no one to call up and say "Hey! I'm coming round for lunch!"

Luckily, Thursdays are Jimena's day off so that's where we will be probably every thursday from now on. Some sanity and conversation for me, and some sanity and playtime with other kids for Ruthie. Works all way round!!!

Yesterday, Gerry received a letter from Jesse!!!! As i'm the one that checks the mailbox, i saw it first. Usually, i just rip open Gerry's mail and decide whether its useful or not... (LOL that sounds terrible!) But seeing as it was addressed to Uncle Gerry , i thought i better not as i usually receive packages and stuff and he hardly ever does.

When he got home, I told him a letter came for him and he opened it.

I'm glad i didn't open it as i don't think i would have appreciated it as much as he did, being that it was a collage full of cars and boy things.

He tried to call to say thankyou, but there was no answer at the Gonzalez residence, so he left a message.

The following are some photos i have taken of Ruthie during the week....

Peace Out!!!

Ruthie being a hairdresser to her horse...

Pulling faces.... How attractive!

and wearing daddy's hat then saying "look mummy! Like Alfie!!!"

This Week...

2007-10-07T13:02:00.000+10:00

So... nothing much has happened this week.
I had my first ante-natal appointment on Tuesday.
Blob is growing well and has a good strong heart beat.
Upon hearing it Ruthie's mouth dropped open. Later, when she was asked what it sounded like she said "It sounded like an Aeroplane"
They confirmed that i am 17 weeks which is awesome coz it means i'm nearly halfway there!!!
Although, to look at me, u'd probably just tell me that ab crunches work really well for that area LOL

I suppose the only other event this week has been the departure of Tia Sylvia who came to visit from Chile for 6 months.
It sounds like a long time, but it seems like only yesterday that we were at my dad's house waiting for them to arrive from the airport after picking her up.
Dad came over on Thursday night (as Mat and Daniel were going to stay over while they went to drop her off at Sydney Airport) and all was well until it came time to say goodbye.
First was Gerry, that was all ok, emotions were kept under control, thanx were given to Gerry for being so attentive with her and that was it.
Next was Alf... They hugged and then it looked as if Alf went to pull away, but she pulled him right back in, hehe, that's when the tears started. No! Not from Alf! From Tia Sylvia!
At this point, Gerry pointed out that
"No one cries for me! And i was the one who used to pick her up every weekend! No one ever cries for the black man!"
Then, she hesitantly came over to me. Not because she didn't like me, but because i was her favourite LOL Her Pilito!
My dad called out "Somebody better get the box of tissues for these two!"
We hugged and she started crying again, telling me to look after myself and that she'd call as soon as she'd arrived.
I would like to point out that i was not crying, nor did i have tears in my eyes contrary to what everyone expected, which was weird because if u ask anyone who knows me, i cry over everything!!
She gave Ruthie a big hug and kiss goodbye and that was it.

Later that night while lying in bed, Gerry said
"Your dad's house is gonna go back to being boring again... Remember what it was like before your aunty got here? We'd go over and read the newspapers to pass the time, then your dad would go to work and leave us with the kids. Your aunty's not gonna be there anymore."

So that was my week... Sorry my first post was so long, but at least u killed some time.

So, until next time... Peace out!!!!